Welcome to the Erica Barton Counseling Blog
A space for reflection, healing, and growth. Here you’ll find insights on trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, attachment healing, and somatic therapy written to support cycle breaking women and therapists through their healing experiences. Explore topics like Anxiety, Relationships, Trauma, Brainspotting, IFS therapy, and embodied mindfulness practices that help you reconnect with your true, whole, authentic self.
Whether you’re seeking trauma therapy in Bend, Oregon, virtual therapy in Oregon state, or online Yoga Therapy anywhere you are, these articles offer guidance, education, and gentle encouragement for your healing journey.
Self Authorship and the Lives we Inherit
This is why expansion starts with curiosity, then deconstruction. And in deconstruction work, rather than dismantling Self, we are excavating; remembering parts that have been buried in favor of survival or connection in an environment that couldn’t make space for all of you.
A letter to cycle breaking women during the holidays
If you are reading this and have been feeling the holiday pressure looming, you are in good company. Perhaps even, you are not just noticing the pressure, but already pushing back against it, finding quiet ways to unhook form patterns that have been running your life for years.
This season has a way of amplifying every role you fill for others. Caregiver, planner, emotional buffer, provider, magic maker, peacekeeper. You may feel that you become so defined by the roles you perform that your own identity feels more like an idea or a part in a play, than something embodied from the inside out.
When Anxiety Feels Like Disconnection and How to Ground Through Your Senses
Grounding is simply a way to help yourself feel more steady and connected when anxiety makes you feel out of place or untethered. Think of it like pressing a reset button for your mind and body. When you’re grounded, you feel more present—like your feet are firmly planted on the ground instead of floating away on a cloud of worry.
Integrating spiritual expression into your healing journey
Spiritual growth can help soften those layers and allow you to reconnect with the wisdom that’s always been there, even if it’s been clouded by fear or past experiences. When you create space for spiritual practices, you’re inviting that deeper connection to come through. Over time, this helps you feel more resilient, more in tune with yourself, and more aligned with your purpose. You learn to trust not only the healing process, but also yourself and your intuition.
what is emdr and how does it help with anxiety?
EMDR works with your brain to address the root causes of anxiety, not just the symptoms. Instead of just managing the anxious thoughts or sensations, EMDR helps uncover and reprocess the experiences or beliefs that might be fueling your anxiety.