Welcome to the Erica Barton Counseling Blog
A space for reflection, healing, and growth. Here you’ll find insights on trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, attachment healing, and somatic therapy written to support sensitive, intuitive people on their path toward wholeness. Explore topics like Anxiety, Relationships, Trauma, Brainspotting, IFS therapy, and embodied mindfulness practices that help you reconnect with your true, whole, authentic self.
Whether you’re seeking trauma therapy in Bend, Oregon, virtual therapy in Oregon state, or online Yoga Therapy anywhere you are, these articles offer guidance, education, and gentle encouragement for your healing journey.
when dating becomes a performance: How to Break out of old roles and choose real connection
Most women I work with aren’t confused about what they want. They’re exhausted from trying to be chosen by people who are emotionally unavailable. Here’s where the message of this article comes in: Learning to prioritize dating men (and partners) who want to be in a relationship, as opposed to men who are looking for a partner to fulfill a role.
Is It Relationship Anxiety or Intuition? How to Tell the Difference When You’re Highly Sensitive
When you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), dating and relationships often feel more intense than they seem to for others. You pick up on every nuance: the silence between texts, the shift in tone, the way your stomach flips when they pull away.
Your mind might spiral with questions:
Is this my intuition telling me something’s off? Or is this just anxiety speaking?
This is the crossroads many sensitive women arrive at—and staying stuck there can feel exhausting. Let’s explore how to discern the difference between relationship anxiety and true intuition—and how to start trusting yourself again.
Why You Feel Stuck: Exploring the Link Between Anxiety and Procrastination
Have you ever felt like your emotions are a rollercoaster, swinging from feeling super anxious to completely drained? Or maybe you feel stuck in one place—constantly on edge, or totally checked out. These feelings aren’t random. They’re connected to how your nervous system responds to stress and past experiences. Understanding something called the window of tolerance can help explain what’s happening and how therapy can make a difference.