Welcome to the Erica Barton Counseling Blog
A space for reflection, healing, and growth. Here you’ll find insights on trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, attachment healing, and somatic therapy written to support cycle breaking women and therapists through their healing experiences. Explore topics like Anxiety, Relationships, Trauma, Brainspotting, IFS therapy, and embodied mindfulness practices that help you reconnect with your true, whole, authentic self.
Whether you’re seeking trauma therapy in Bend, Oregon, virtual therapy in Oregon state, or online Yoga Therapy anywhere you are, these articles offer guidance, education, and gentle encouragement for your healing journey.
Beyond rest: Why Burnout is complex
Every time I have been expanding into a fuller version of my life that I have been working towards, that I have been envisioning, wanting, dreaming, that is more authentically aligned, that I am genuinely ready for, my nervous system capacity starts to shrink and tense around the expansion, and my functioning takes a dip.
Aside from the obvious reasons which is that we are asking more of our brains, bodies, and hearts when we expand into new territory, my experience is that it goes beyond that, especially when one is living with developmental trauma, attachment wounds, etc., which is why the advice to rest more can be more of a temporary band-aid than a long term solution.
Self Authorship and the Lives we Inherit
This is why expansion starts with curiosity, then deconstruction. And in deconstruction work, rather than dismantling Self, we are excavating; remembering parts that have been buried in favor of survival or connection in an environment that couldn’t make space for all of you.
When Anxiety Feels Like Disconnection and How to Ground Through Your Senses
Grounding is simply a way to help yourself feel more steady and connected when anxiety makes you feel out of place or untethered. Think of it like pressing a reset button for your mind and body. When you’re grounded, you feel more present—like your feet are firmly planted on the ground instead of floating away on a cloud of worry.
i am this breath: a practice for uncertain times
When we allow our heart to close in response to fear arising, we begin to separate ourselves from the very connections- even remotely or energetically- that help us to heal.
Integrating spiritual expression into your healing journey
Spiritual growth can help soften those layers and allow you to reconnect with the wisdom that’s always been there, even if it’s been clouded by fear or past experiences. When you create space for spiritual practices, you’re inviting that deeper connection to come through. Over time, this helps you feel more resilient, more in tune with yourself, and more aligned with your purpose. You learn to trust not only the healing process, but also yourself and your intuition.
You are not a project