Welcome to the Erica Barton Counseling Blog
A space for reflection, healing, and growth. Here you’ll find insights on trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, attachment healing, and somatic therapy written to support cycle breaking women and therapists through their healing experiences. Explore topics like Anxiety, Relationships, Trauma, Brainspotting, IFS therapy, and embodied mindfulness practices that help you reconnect with your true, whole, authentic self.
Whether you’re seeking trauma therapy in Bend, Oregon, virtual therapy in Oregon state, or online Yoga Therapy anywhere you are, these articles offer guidance, education, and gentle encouragement for your healing journey.
Awakening within the Dream:
Most sensitive women I’ve met have been told their entire lives that they are too sensitive, too much, difficult, miserable, looking for attention, a problem. But this narrative and the extent to which it is reinforced and defended systematically, indicates something very different. That sensitive women are far more dangerous than they are weak. I have observed that many, if not all, sensitive women carry a powerful purpose in healing, awakening, prophecy, sight, and embodiment of what the collective is unwilling or unable to acknowledge. She is the archivist and metabolizer of the grief of the collective.
when dating becomes a performance: How to Break out of old roles and choose real connection
Most women I work with aren’t confused about what they want. They’re exhausted from trying to be chosen by people who are emotionally unavailable. Here’s where the message of this article comes in: Learning to prioritize dating men (and partners) who want to be in a relationship, as opposed to men who are looking for a partner to fulfill a role.
Is Anxiety a Trauma Response? What You Should Know
Many of my clients come to me exhausted. Not because they’re falling apart, but because they’re done pretending they’re fine.
They’ve already done some therapy. They’ve read the books. They can name their patterns. But something still feels stuck. Underneath the surface, there’s a constant hum of worry, pressure, tightness. That quiet panic that never really goes away.
And most of them carry a secret fear: What if I’m just too sensitive? What if this is just who I am? What I’m just broken?
Here’s the truth: if you feel anxious all the time- especially in relationships, in groups, when resting, or when you're alone- it’s not a flaw in your personality. It might be a trauma response. And that means there’s nothing wrong with you. It means your body has been working overtime to protect you.